Post by Admin on May 18, 2021 3:56:56 GMT
Prison life for a 'tweeb', just what if?
There's not a guy out there who hasn't thought about what life would be like in prison.
And most non career criminal type guys or 'tweebs' mainly think of prison in terms of
'Will I be a top or a bottom?'
Meaning will you or they dominate or be dominated?
Cause in jail or prison there really is no neutral standing, either you dominate or are dominated, exploited ect.
So in the movies it's always some square looking semi ugly masculine male who has to prove himself after being tried, fight follows, and usually character wins fight and respect of others, end of story...but is it?
Prison is much more complicated than just getting in one fight, proving self, then others forever leaving you alone.
If you win one fight, than you'll obviously be challenged over and over again, not only that but most prison guys belong to larger groups, gangs or just associations, friends ect, so if beat up their friend, they're coming for you sooner or later unless you yourself join a 'group' or gang which brings along with it it's own set of hazards.
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The other path some chose is just to go in 'soft', as a guy or male, but once you do that there's really no turning back.
'Soft' in personality and soft as in allowing other males to 'handle you', bully you and ect.
I often ask self, as do most males, and that is if in Prison, and cornered in the shower room (stereotypical place of assaults), would I resist, or 'lay down'?
Which would be the easier path?
1. Resist = either getting beat up there on the spot and still 'handled' and or just putting off the eventual.
2. 'Lay down' = Rumor spreading fast that you're 'easy meat' and now tagged for whole duration and can basically never regain 'manhood' cause if try, the person you try to stand up to will be laughed at and mocked, and will come back even harder.
So which is worse, to get sexually 'handled' by other inmates, or to get physically beat up, bruised, maybe suffer perminant damage to organs or body...which is worse?
That answer depends totally on 'you'
I mean if married, have family, reputation to up hold than sure, fighting would be number one choice, but if single, no family, alone, no reputation to uphold than would 'laying down' be the better option?
If 'lay down' so to speak, than people already know you're not 'tough' and so would not be challenged in that way, but then again being handled by ugly prison men could get really old after a while, and or made to do their chorse and other housekeeping stuff.
a lot goes into this 'thought process'....it all depends on how one sees self.
I mean if younger and more 'cute' than it might be easier to 'lay down', but if older and don't see self as 'sexy', it might be harder.
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Watching prison movie now and that's what spawned me to create this section here.
More thoughts to follow as time allows.
There's not a guy out there who hasn't thought about what life would be like in prison.
And most non career criminal type guys or 'tweebs' mainly think of prison in terms of
'Will I be a top or a bottom?'
Meaning will you or they dominate or be dominated?
Cause in jail or prison there really is no neutral standing, either you dominate or are dominated, exploited ect.
So in the movies it's always some square looking semi ugly masculine male who has to prove himself after being tried, fight follows, and usually character wins fight and respect of others, end of story...but is it?
Prison is much more complicated than just getting in one fight, proving self, then others forever leaving you alone.
If you win one fight, than you'll obviously be challenged over and over again, not only that but most prison guys belong to larger groups, gangs or just associations, friends ect, so if beat up their friend, they're coming for you sooner or later unless you yourself join a 'group' or gang which brings along with it it's own set of hazards.
------------------------------------------------
The other path some chose is just to go in 'soft', as a guy or male, but once you do that there's really no turning back.
'Soft' in personality and soft as in allowing other males to 'handle you', bully you and ect.
I often ask self, as do most males, and that is if in Prison, and cornered in the shower room (stereotypical place of assaults), would I resist, or 'lay down'?
Which would be the easier path?
1. Resist = either getting beat up there on the spot and still 'handled' and or just putting off the eventual.
2. 'Lay down' = Rumor spreading fast that you're 'easy meat' and now tagged for whole duration and can basically never regain 'manhood' cause if try, the person you try to stand up to will be laughed at and mocked, and will come back even harder.
So which is worse, to get sexually 'handled' by other inmates, or to get physically beat up, bruised, maybe suffer perminant damage to organs or body...which is worse?
That answer depends totally on 'you'
I mean if married, have family, reputation to up hold than sure, fighting would be number one choice, but if single, no family, alone, no reputation to uphold than would 'laying down' be the better option?
If 'lay down' so to speak, than people already know you're not 'tough' and so would not be challenged in that way, but then again being handled by ugly prison men could get really old after a while, and or made to do their chorse and other housekeeping stuff.
a lot goes into this 'thought process'....it all depends on how one sees self.
I mean if younger and more 'cute' than it might be easier to 'lay down', but if older and don't see self as 'sexy', it might be harder.
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Watching prison movie now and that's what spawned me to create this section here.
More thoughts to follow as time allows.